Whilst I don’t consider myself to be an expert on twin soul/flame connections, one thing I do know from my own personal experience is just how difficult, frustrating, and confusing this connection can be; it is all consuming. You can’t sleep, eat, read a book or concentrate on anything other than your twin – they occupy your mind 24/7!
At first, I didn’t understand why I felt the way I did, this certainty and knowing-ness that came from so deep within my soul, because apart from our first date my twin was doing nothing to encourage me. In fact he was pushing me away. Normally, I wasn’t one who took rejection well, so if a man didn’t like me or showed no interest in me I would walk away quickly. I had pride and loads of it. But this one was different…and the more he pushed me away, the stronger my feeling became (crazy, I know!) but my instinct told me not to give up on him and that all was taken care of. I would often hear this message in my mind, especially when I was feeling low.
For the first couple of years I didn’t even know he was my twin soul mate; I’d actually never even heard of the word until a medium I visited told me about it. I had already started on my spiritual path. However, after I met my twin my spiritual journey escalated. I had already learned how to read the tarot cards and was having fun with this. My connection with my guardian angel, which had always been strong, got even stronger as the months and years went by. I was forever asking them to help me with my situation and to help me understand why I was going through this. I received all sorts of messages, via dreams, songs, psychic readings you name it but nothing was bringing him towards me.
Over the years I had done a lot of reading on twin soul relationships and one thing they all said was that twin souls are mirror images of one another. I couldn’t see this at the time. He was a successful, talented, powerful, handsome man. Something I wasn’t! I didn’t have a career, I was a receptionist and as far as I knew I didn’t have any exceptional talent. However, as time went on I realised that was exactly what I was meant to be I wasn’t only meant to be somebody’s daughter, somebody’s sister or somebody’s friend. I had a purpose for being here and that is when I embraced my creative voice!
I had never really written anything in my life, but I was desperate, and I had to find an outlet to express my feelings. All the angst and longing was beginning to take its toll – I felt like I was going insane. I thought about my twin 24/7. At the suggestion of my sister (I think she was sick of hearing me moan on about my situation), I eventually put my fingers to the keyboard and to cut a very long story short…two and a half months later I had written my book which I called “I LISTENED TO MY HEART”. It is a fiction story based on my meeting my twin soul mate. And it didn’t stop there , I discovered a talent for lyric writing and I have since gone on to write over 50 love songs including 25 which I have had recorded to music. I have also received high acknowledgement from various worldwide competitions and I’m hoping one day to win a Grammy. Yes, I’m a woman with big dreams!
So what the moral of this story is? If you have met your twin soul mate and you are going through a difficult time, try to stop and listen to your inner voice, your soul. What is it trying to tell you? A twin flame meeting is about helping you to find your own sense of purpose, learning to let go of your ego, to heal yourself and love who you are unconditionally. A reunion will only occur when you are whole within. This means you have to bring forth happiness and complete unconditional love both for yourself and others before you can unite. Your twin must do the same for the reunion to occur. This is not something you can get from your twin or your twin from you. Unfortunately no matter how much you pray to those above, ring psychics, drive yourself and your friends crazy; there is no short cut to a happy ending. There is work to be done.
Even though my twin and I are still not together physically, he is forever with me on a soul level and I look forward to the day when we will meet again, as I believe we will. I lost myself for a while, but through losing myself… I also found myself. My twin has given me the greatest gift of all: ME. Maybe that was the reason he came into my life, to help me become the woman I am today. If so, he has done his job and I thank him from the bottom of my heart.
I love my twin soul mate unconditionally as I do myself.
Rosemary Gallagher was born in Melbourne, Australia until a turning point in her life led her to move to London where she resides today. She is a Tarot reader/Angel Intuitive, and the Author of the incredible fictional debut novel “I Listened to My Heart’, inspired by a real life experience. A wonderful lyricist, you can connect with Rosemary on Her Website, Facebook, Twitter and email.